Let’s just pretend that a teen is living with just a dad.No mom. okay..
When a boy goes out on a date with a girl, the dad’s first reply is, “Go get em son!” or.. “Have fun with her! No curfiew!”
And when a girl goes out on a date with a boy, the feedback from the dad is, “No touching, 2 feet away from each other at all times.” or.. “Be back at 9″ or.. “Where are you going and when will you be back?!” BLAH.BLAH.BLAH.
Personally, I think its sexist and not fair if you KNOW for a fact that they are comparing you to other girls and you KNOW that your responsible and know what not to do. I hate that. I really do. I’m not that stupid to go on a date with a boy, [or in my case, just hang out with one], and come back like this….
It’s just not fair. And even though I’m growing up fast, I know for a fact that I wont grow up to be like this THING.
So you get what I mean. I think. Well, you should. I just dont think its fair that boys can do whatever they want but girls can’t.. So yeah..
PeAcE.
-Big A-
I know you won’t, honey. That’s why I love you so much…you are smart.
I can do whatever I want?! Really? RAD!
OK – how about this – if a guy gets a girl preggers – he can run and hide and just go lead a normal life.
If a girl gets preggers, she’s changed her entire life if she keeps it.
Fair? Not really. So in exchange for that, I’ll give you a couple years of extra life, a choice between raising a family and having a career, beauty, being the mom, spit that cleans anything from anything, and fashion sense.
ahah you know what i meant.
and yeah thats the reason I was thinking too. Its not fair for girls.
I wish there was a change in human nature where boys had their periods, and they grew little babies in their stomachs.
its all part of life girlie. cause when you get older you’ll realize “hey, dad was right, boys really just want one thing.” lol of course not ALL boys are like that (trust me most are!)but theres really no telling which ones are good and which ones are bad so just keep that smart head of yours. we both have one, lets hope little A gets one too! i love you and miss you so much. be good. cant wait to see you.
haha yeah I know.. mine isn’t like that. I know it 100% for sure.
and I hope mom and dad know that.. if they don’t, they should get to know him more then.
Every parent I know always says, “oh theres no love at that age..” okay wrong.
either they got heartbroken at that age, and thinks that every other teen will too.. or jealous that they never had love at that age.
but seriously.. its been 4 months and 2 days.. no fights or “arguments”.. dude. i’d like marry him if I could right now.
hi there girl, its your aunty viv. i know how you feel about the whole girl boy thing. my mom had me on a leash(so to speak), and when i left for the army my brother got all kinds of freedom…go figure. i trust my girls(now), and have to trust that they will do the right thing. you go girl, and keep that beautiful head on your shoulders. love you
hey! Yeah, I truely don’t know why boys get more freedom. It’s a question that will never be answered I guess?
It’s not fair. And it’s hard to understand. I have two boys and a girl. And I DO worry about my girl more than the boys. I can’t say exactly why that is. It’s just the way it is. Sucks, I know.
thanks for the comment!
but yeah.. that’s exactly what I mean.and I guess thats it for every parent..
but no one ever knows why?
girl.. its the female and male perception. you know how if you look at a female vs a male you always a imagine the male being stronger than the women. that is just how society is.. fortunately we live in a society that woman have proved themselves as having the potential to be superior and that is how we should be our parents children. UNFORTUNATELY we have such SICK and twisted people in this world, even us as adults have to be careful so our parents sees us as delicate little beings and want to protect us from everything and everything..its hard to be a parent.. i get it now but i didnt back then. You should be lucky you do not have a brother lol.. I grew up with an older brother younger sister.. mind you my brother is ONLY one year older than me.. I had middle child syndrome.. I thought i was always the victim.. my brother would be able to stay out until 1am on weekends and I had started out with an 11 o’clock curfew. As time progressed I was able to stay out until 12am and my brother still always later than me.. its very hard to understand and grasp.. but it is one of those things that you will HAVE to accept to just be able to have a peace of mind.. usually parents (just a side note I was only raised with my mom so i did not have anyone else to go to) going back parents will usually see the boy as the superior and the girl as the inferior. it has to do with years and years of instilling values and family traits.. i am sure you will see it that way when you become a mother.. and the father of your child will see it that way as well. I say this because now that i am married and i hope to have children some day soon and when I see tv and kids are acting up i am like ohhhhhh helllll noooo!! lol my child will not be acting like that. and i will enforce rules.. going back to what i was saying about we have to also prove ourselves to our parents. heres a lil story to share.. now that im “grown up” i sat down with my mom and asked about all the things that i thought were wrong when growing up and she told me why she gave me problems when going out.. she explained to me that if i wouldve showed her and proved myself to be always doing the right thing then she wouldve given me a lil more freedom.. she said she always knew that i would do the right thing when it came to friends and peer pressure but she wasnt so sure that i would be able to cope with not putting myself in a hard situation to begin with.. basically my mom trusted that i would make the right choice.. but why would i put myself in that situation in the first place is what worried her.. so when i was able to prove to her that i was always doing the right thing.. TALKING BACK WAS A BIG ISSUE WITH MY MOM.. i was always so opinionated, outspoken and defiant that, that was the reason why she would not allow me to do things.. she told me if you show you are obedient and do the right thing without even asking.. and do what your told then everything is smooth sailing.. and after a while of battling with not talking back to her and being an overall good kid i got what i wanted.. but believe i still nicely voiced my opinion
Yeah I agree with everything. I just wish they would trust me more as if they I was a boy too..
It’s the same way for every parent I know. Boys always get more rights.
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Oh a good post ! Yes that’s so true and all across the glob the scenario is same for girls. Yes our parent’s warn us before we step out of the house but that’s mostly out of concern and their knowledge about boys in general! Boys all across the globe are wicked so beware , they can make girls fool by their warming speech!
Mom’s Girl Or Dad’s Girl ? Which parent is your role model?
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